I believe that quitting is a
good thing. In fact, many of the best things in my business and life have
come from quitting. In my personal businesscoaching practice I collaborate with and support successful
people. Interestingly, the one thing that all of them are seeking is to
quit what isn’t working or has outlived its usefulness in their businesses and
lives. Only in this manner can they be committed to a path of growth. The
art of quitting minimizes the clutter and obstacles to moving forward.
Quitting certainly carries a negative
connotation in our culture. I remember the sign above the entrance to my
high school locker room, “A winner never quits. And
a quitter never wins.” When it comes to sports and other endeavors not
quitting can make sense.
But, to be honest, there are many
things in my business and life that would have impacted me positively if I had
chosen to quit them sooner. I should have quit accounting and being a
financial analyst sooner. I loved the study of accounting and finance in
school but I felt totally unfulfilled in these areas in the business
world. There are many more examples.
Quitting Means Letting Go
So, why didn’t I let go of being an
accountant? I knew it wasn’t working. For me there was fear in
quitting. I had wrapped up my identity in being an accountant or financial
analyst. It was what I had studied in graduate business school.
Furthermore, I was afraid of what
people would think about my quitting. I hung on for a year. I refused
to let go. But at some point I realized that by not quitting I was wasting
time in my life and this time was characterized by unhappiness.
When I decided to quit I had decided
to let go of an image and profession
that wasn’t working for me. I understood that I was letting fear paralyze
me and steal my joy.
Quitting
Is A Necessary Step To Success
Think about it. When new and
improved technology is available you will go ahead and embrace it and the
processes it entails. You have no problem letting go of or quitting the
old way to embrace something that is not only new but better.
For the self-employed businessowner, entrepreneur, solo professional, corporate manager, executive or
individual there is a fear of embracing something new and letting go of what is
old and familiar.
Yet, if we don’t let go and practice
the art of quitting we can never grow or
advance. May we face criticism and skepticism from others? Yes. But
you are determined to achieve success and you have decided to move
forward. You are no longer going to have your business or yourself be held
hostage in exchange for avoiding the criticisms and opinions of others.
Quitting
Creates New Pathways To Success
Just as when a road way is blocked
we find an alternate route, the same is true in the formula for success. To
build momentum and move forward we are always looking for better ways to improve efficiency and effectiveness. Only
when we master the art of quitting the old can the new enter and improve our
performance.
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