I am challenging you to quit. Do
you have the skill or discipline to know when to quit? In my
personal business coaching practice I
have observed that very often the greatest success among the self-employed
business owner, entrepreneur, solo professional or corporate manager or
executive comes when they decide to quit.
In the previous post we looked at
quitting as a necessary step on the stairway to success. As you are
climbing that stairway, you have to let go of previous thoughts, processes and
ways of thinking in order to climb to the next step.
Learn To Quit
In your personal life you must learn
to quit. Sometimes this is much harder to do than in the business arena as
we have to deal with extremely personal
circumstances and their repercussions.
The type of quitting I`m talking
about has nothing to do with what you actually want to achieve in your
life. It has everything to do with what you want to become and what you
want your life to be.
In short, we must identify what isn`t
working and quit trying to make it work.
Quit–Get
Rid Of What Is Standing In Your Way
What is standing in your way and
keeping you from what you want and who you want to become? What are you
carrying around in terms of thoughts, emotions, and ways of doing things and
relationships that are weighing you down and keeping you from achieving your
goals?
As someone once said, I have met the
enemy and it is me. Take stock of all areas of your life and determine what is
draining you of energy and focus. As you take stock of these things
understand that they have made you stronger.
But also understand that stronger doesn`t
mean that you are more efficient, more effective
and happier.
Quit-Get
Rid Of Your Tolerations
What is toleration? It is
anything that drains you of energy and/or focus. Tolerations and dealing
with them can make us stronger while at the same time bringing our progress on
the stairway to success to a stop.
In my personal business coaching
practice when I hear someone say that they are a survivor it almost always
means that the joy and excitement has been drained from their businesses and
lives. Would you rather survive or thrive?
Thriving comes when you quit the tolerations that are holding you
back. Imagine how much more efficient, effective and happier you would be
utilizing your strength that was developed from surviving to applying it to
thriving. To thrive all you have to do is quit.
When you learn how to quit you have
learned to let go of what isn`t working. You have learned to say no to
what isn`t going to work. You start living your life around honoring who
you are. And the best part is this. When you learn to quit and stop
being addicted to what doesn`t work you will definitely move from surviving to
thriving.
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